It’s been five dates. Five wonderful dates. You’ve laughed, eaten, drank, talked, and gazed into each other’s eyes–everything except kiss. Why won’t he kiss you? Why isn’t he kissing you? Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or you’re starting out on something new, kissing is important. It helps to establish an intimate connection between the two of you, and studies have even shown that kissing can be very good for your health. If you want to get him to start puckering up, you’ll need to learn how to entice him. The aim of the game here is to make him want you so much, he can’t help himself – he must kiss you! These tips will tell you how.
Be inviting…
Great as things may be going and as much as you long to be kissed; your body language may be telling him otherwise. If you’re standing next to him with your arms crossed in front of your chest, you hardly look inviting to him, do you? You look closed off. You look as if you don’t want anyone to get into your personal space, and you certainly don’t look as if you want to be kissed. Try a more open body language to let him know that it’s okay to come in for a kiss. Stop doing things like crossing your arms or leaning back/away in your seat and instead take an open stance and lean in close every chance you get. Let your body invite him into your space so he can have some idea that you do indeed want that kiss.
Touch him…
We’re not talking about inappropriate touching, of course! You need to get to first base before you go there! We’re talking about subtle cues that break that barrier of personal space and up the intimacy level. A touch of his arm while you speak or even his knee if he’s sitting is a good start. Letting your lips “accidentally” graze his ear as you lean in close to say something to him will send shivers down his spine. The slightest and most subtle touches will speak volumes and not only let him know that it’s okay to kiss you, but also make his entire body want to kiss you.
His lips – look at them…
Looking at his lips as he speaks to you sends a subconscious message. While you’ve been staring at his lips, he has subconsciously been noticing. You don’t actually need to go the full whack and stare at his lips, of course. Just fleeting glances are enough to tell him what he needs to know. If you start paying them attention, he’s going to see that and presume you want more. And, if he hasn’t yet even thought of kissing you, this will put it in the forefront of his mind and leave him to think of little else.
Draw attention to your lips…
Bite your lip, brush it with your fingertips, lick them… Drawing attention to your own lips has pretty much the same effect as staring at his. He’ll start noticing your lips and soon won’t be able to stop thinking about them until he’s kissed them. Like with all of the other hints we’ve covered, you need to be very subtle when you do this. Lapping away at your own lip or biting too obviously will just make you look, well, kinda’ nuts! Be subtle and don’t keep doing it over and over. Pace yourself and make it seem completely natural. If he is looking your way when you bite your lip or lick them, you can be sure that he has taken notice.
Linger there…
When he drops you off after a date, don’t be in such a hurry to open your door and get right inside. Wait around on the doorstep for a few moments and linger there as you thank him for the wonderful evening. Fiddle with your keys, sort out his tie/jacket/shirt, make a joke, do whatever you need to do to keep him there for just one minute longer. Don’t keep him there too long, of course, but give him at least a minute or two to realize that he has the perfect opportunity to go in for a kiss. The same goes for when you meet up or he picks you up. Chances are that throughout your time together you’ll be able to spot opportunities to linger and send him the message that it’s a good time to just kiss you already.
Kiss him first…
Gasps can be heard all around at the suggestion that you kiss him first. As the man, he should be the one to do it, right? And the title of this article is “How to Get Him to Kiss You”, after all! Well, by kissing him first we mean a playful kiss on the cheek as you joke around together or a soft, sexy, and suggestive kiss on the cheek at the end of the night as you lean in close enough to have your bodies touching. You needn’t go for the full Monty and give it all away or anything! A well-placed and well-timed kiss on the cheek will get you kissed the way you want to be. Just be sure to keep that cheek kiss on the sexy side and avoid looking like you’re cutting him off at the pass and placing him in the friend zone with a kiss on the cheek.
To sum it up…
Learning how to get him to kiss you is about subtlety. You can get him to want to kiss you without ever having to tell him that’s what you want using words. Even the densest of guys will be able to pick up on your cues when you use a combination of the right body language, the right kind of touching, and let your eyes do the talking. A man needs some encouragement because no matter how confident he may seem, he too wonders if he should or shouldn’t in fear of being rejected. The right cues help to get kissing on his mind and invite him in for a smooch.
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